One of the biggest characteristic you need to have in pick up is to always open. I know this is obvious, but I know a lot of guys are really afraid to open, even after a bootcamp. Ans, when I say this, I mean open, open, open.
After my first bootcamp, I mean right after, I was afraid that I would not be able to open at all being alone and not having a coach next to me. BTW, that bootcamp changed my fucke'n life, I have to say. I took it in San Francisco. It made me really see what was possible, and sent me on my way to getting really good with women. That was about 7 years ago.
Anyway . . .
So, I did something about it: After the bootcamp, I opened 3 girls at the airport. I was so releived that I was able to open right after the bootcamp. When I got home, I went on the main st by my house and I opened and addition 2 women.
Now, the point here was that I did not want to lose momentum after the bootcamp, and I was able to keep it.
When you start out doing pick up, you have to really have to just go out and open girls. I know a lot of guys who spend thousands on a bootcamp and then, afterwords, they never open women.
I know it's hard, especially when you open alone, but you have to do it. Get a wing if you have to.
One of the biggest pitfalls is if you lose momentum, you won't open. And if you don't open, you will never get good.
Tuesday, April 24, 2012
Friday, April 20, 2012
Been Busy
Hey Guys,
Back from the grave again. Been busy with new articles and what not. You can check it out here if you like: How To Get Women To Bed. I have been busy writing new content for my site www.astonishingdatingsecrets.com.
I hope you guys are getting the success with women that you have always wanted.
I hung out with my best friend Sinn and Fastlife the other day at the Cheese Cake Factory and it was cool seeing the guys and stuff.
I have to say that it is always fascinating talking about pick up theory from one of the best PUAs in the world. We do debate about the stuff that's for sure.
Sinn is obviously tearing it up with women as usual,
Anyway, just wanted to drop a line and will be writing more on this blog soon. See you later!
--Kurgan
Back from the grave again. Been busy with new articles and what not. You can check it out here if you like: How To Get Women To Bed. I have been busy writing new content for my site www.astonishingdatingsecrets.com.
I hope you guys are getting the success with women that you have always wanted.
I hung out with my best friend Sinn and Fastlife the other day at the Cheese Cake Factory and it was cool seeing the guys and stuff.
I have to say that it is always fascinating talking about pick up theory from one of the best PUAs in the world. We do debate about the stuff that's for sure.
Sinn is obviously tearing it up with women as usual,
Anyway, just wanted to drop a line and will be writing more on this blog soon. See you later!
--Kurgan
Monday, May 9, 2011
The Right Way To Flirt With Women.
I have observed that most men just have no clue as to how to flirt with women. This article flirting tips for guys is simple but powerful for all guys out there. Since men are pretty strait forward in our communication, it makes sense that men have no clue to effective flirting. Girls by contrast speak what I call womanese, which is emotionally based conversation.
Womansese doesn’t seem logical to us men, but it does if you understand that a woman is driven by her emotions. Thus, to master flirting tips for guys, we must always be conscious of this.
Not understanding womanese can just kill your game. Let's get the two mostimportant elements to flirting.
Smile
(Warning: Smile intermittently at high points in your conversation or flirting.
I love the scene in the last Batman movie when the Joker says, “Why so serious?” You really need to heed that from the Joker. No serious and creepy guy. Approaching a woman I know is hard. If you look too serious or constipated when you are talking or apporaching a woman, you're done: no chance.
When you want to start a conversation with a woman or you are walking past a hottie and you want to start some kind of conversation, just smile!
When using your naughty banter lines, have a smile on your face. Most red-blooded American woman would find a man's warm smile refreshing. Women like that a lot in men, and it’s so simple to do! Right away, you'll get attraction from a woman.
You may not even know if you are smiling or not when you are out in the social milieu. From now on, smile. It's a big deal.
Tease The Woman
You just have to learn how to tease a woman. In the battle of the sexes, it is your most cherished weapon. Just remember this if you don’t know how: whatever was fun on the playground in elementary school is still fun today with women.
So, the following is fair game:
-Call her a “dork.”
-If she says something “dorky” ask for her hand. Take her had and gently slap her hand and tell her, "Bad girl."
-Ask her to thumb wrestle with her.
-Call her “Little One.”
-By reversing the frame of a hot girl, you can pretend that she is chasing after you.
-Call her a powerpuff girl, like, “OMG! You’re just like a Powerpuff girl!
These are great examples of flirting tips for guys: Think of some more and try them.
It doesn't almost make sense, but women love this. Just insert it in between your conversation with the woman. Yes, it does take practice, but it’s not too hard. Just remember to be playful when you do these things and smile when you do it.
Mastering flirting tips for men will give you a ton of dates and phone numbers.
Womansese doesn’t seem logical to us men, but it does if you understand that a woman is driven by her emotions. Thus, to master flirting tips for guys, we must always be conscious of this.
Not understanding womanese can just kill your game. Let's get the two mostimportant elements to flirting.
Smile
(Warning: Smile intermittently at high points in your conversation or flirting.
I love the scene in the last Batman movie when the Joker says, “Why so serious?” You really need to heed that from the Joker. No serious and creepy guy. Approaching a woman I know is hard. If you look too serious or constipated when you are talking or apporaching a woman, you're done: no chance.
When you want to start a conversation with a woman or you are walking past a hottie and you want to start some kind of conversation, just smile!
When using your naughty banter lines, have a smile on your face. Most red-blooded American woman would find a man's warm smile refreshing. Women like that a lot in men, and it’s so simple to do! Right away, you'll get attraction from a woman.
You may not even know if you are smiling or not when you are out in the social milieu. From now on, smile. It's a big deal.
Tease The Woman
You just have to learn how to tease a woman. In the battle of the sexes, it is your most cherished weapon. Just remember this if you don’t know how: whatever was fun on the playground in elementary school is still fun today with women.
So, the following is fair game:
-Call her a “dork.”
-If she says something “dorky” ask for her hand. Take her had and gently slap her hand and tell her, "Bad girl."
-Ask her to thumb wrestle with her.
-Call her “Little One.”
-By reversing the frame of a hot girl, you can pretend that she is chasing after you.
-Call her a powerpuff girl, like, “OMG! You’re just like a Powerpuff girl!
These are great examples of flirting tips for guys: Think of some more and try them.
It doesn't almost make sense, but women love this. Just insert it in between your conversation with the woman. Yes, it does take practice, but it’s not too hard. Just remember to be playful when you do these things and smile when you do it.
Mastering flirting tips for men will give you a ton of dates and phone numbers.
Thursday, May 5, 2011
Attract Women To You Now
It's astonishing just how easy it is to learn how to atract women, if you know what to do. 99% of men out there think that a woman is mostly attracted to money and looks in a man. To put it another way, men think that a woman will be attracted to you primarily because of your physical looks, material wealth, height, and/or a full head of hair; Most of the time.
It's great that this is not the case. Woman are attracted to your character more. The essential element is to get that woman attrated to you and fast.
We men look at women initially as sexual objects. We think, "Wow, she's smoking hot. I'd love to sleep with her; she's sexy."
Since we are men, then, we might think, "wow, I can marry this woman, and she can have my babies."
Personality and character is not even on a man's radar. I believe that we do care but that happens later, after we've slept with the woman.
But for women, it's the polar. A man's personality is the single most important attractor for a woman. There are some guys that are saying that's not true. Better looking guys, yes they will go for, but only to some degree.
Most women will sleep with them but they will not a relationship with this man unless he has character and personality.
Most good looking guys never had to develop their personalities because they always got what they wanted based on their looks.
A good looking woman is the same.
Hence with women they like a man's character based on their personalities.
Men who are rich and good looking, that's what we think women want from a man. This is just not true. Don't think that way.
Look at Dennis Kucinich. He has a wife that was a formal model who is supper hot. Check him out on google.
Your Personality: Inner Psychology
When it comes to looks, women are so forgiving. It makes no difference. That is not to say, let your looks go and have bad hygiene. The looks that nature gave you is good enough.
It's so cool.
So, what you have to do is to stress on your personality. Develop it! The single greatest thing a woman will be attracted to is your personality.
Here are some killer tips to "beef up" you're personality:
-Work out at least 4 days a week. This will develop your character. Go to a rock climbing gym or go camping alone. Just get your testosterone going.
- Work on your confidence. Say this in the morning for 5 minutes a day: "I like myself." and "I am confident."
- Study humor and learn how to be playful around women.
-Forever, never say your sorry because you want women.
Make a passion in your life the number one thing. Make your passion in your life first and formost.
Women will be attracted to you all the time if you follow what I am saying here.
--Kurgan
It's great that this is not the case. Woman are attracted to your character more. The essential element is to get that woman attrated to you and fast.
We men look at women initially as sexual objects. We think, "Wow, she's smoking hot. I'd love to sleep with her; she's sexy."
Since we are men, then, we might think, "wow, I can marry this woman, and she can have my babies."
Personality and character is not even on a man's radar. I believe that we do care but that happens later, after we've slept with the woman.
But for women, it's the polar. A man's personality is the single most important attractor for a woman. There are some guys that are saying that's not true. Better looking guys, yes they will go for, but only to some degree.
Most women will sleep with them but they will not a relationship with this man unless he has character and personality.
Most good looking guys never had to develop their personalities because they always got what they wanted based on their looks.
A good looking woman is the same.
Hence with women they like a man's character based on their personalities.
Men who are rich and good looking, that's what we think women want from a man. This is just not true. Don't think that way.
Look at Dennis Kucinich. He has a wife that was a formal model who is supper hot. Check him out on google.
Your Personality: Inner Psychology
When it comes to looks, women are so forgiving. It makes no difference. That is not to say, let your looks go and have bad hygiene. The looks that nature gave you is good enough.
It's so cool.
So, what you have to do is to stress on your personality. Develop it! The single greatest thing a woman will be attracted to is your personality.
Here are some killer tips to "beef up" you're personality:
-Work out at least 4 days a week. This will develop your character. Go to a rock climbing gym or go camping alone. Just get your testosterone going.
- Work on your confidence. Say this in the morning for 5 minutes a day: "I like myself." and "I am confident."
- Study humor and learn how to be playful around women.
-Forever, never say your sorry because you want women.
Make a passion in your life the number one thing. Make your passion in your life first and formost.
Women will be attracted to you all the time if you follow what I am saying here.
--Kurgan
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
Review Sinns of Attraction Seduction Road Map
If you want to pick up women in a bar or club, this review is for you.
Sinn and I have been best buds for over 5 years as you guys know. I have witnessed first hand his incredible ability to pick up women. I and one other friend, RAHN are the few people that really know about Sinn.
When I first met Sinn, he was lead instructor for Mystery Method. Now, that was with Mystery, Savoy, The Don, Future, 10magnet, Style, DJ and a lot of other guys. It was really fun I have to say
We would go to clubs and bars, tearing up the place. Whether it was in Orange County, LA, Sf, Miami, or Vegas, it was always a blast.
When I first met Mystery, it was at a huge Pick Up convention in LV. We sure had some crazy nights in Vegas from clubs to strip clubs. We had a great time at the Circle Bar at the Hard Rock Cafe.
Anyway, Sinn has put out an incredible product called The Seduction Road Map. You can actually check it out here:
http://www.astonishingdatingsecrets.com/go/Sinnsofattraction
It's all of Sinn's secret stuff that we would always talk about. It's amazing.
But here is my analysis of Sinn's Seduction road Map.
How To Completely Eliminate Sexual Anxiety
The secret problem most men have is sexual anxiety which Sinn attacts right away. What both Sinn and I have noticed over the years is that there are a lot of guys that say they want to have sex with women, but that they make up all these excuses why they can't.
Sinn concluded that a lot of these guys were suffering from sexual anxiety: a fear of having sex with women. The most serious reason for you not having sex is sexual anxiety. I mean how frustrating is it to finally get a girl to your bed room and you get scared or have anxiety and ruin the oppotunity.
Once and for all Sinn deals with this private and delicate issue once and for all. What would it be worth to you if you can have the awesome confidence to know that you are a sexual man that can deliver!
Moreover, in The Seduction Road Map, Sinn just goes into a no nonsense approach to teach you to getting laid by looking at the different modules in The Seduction Road Map:
• How To Completely Eliminate Sexual Anxiety
• Ceating Sexual Attraction
• The Art of Setting Sexual Frames
• Unleashing Her Sexual Side
• Non-Verbal Seduction.
Each modules contain lessons in each of these types of media:
• VIDEO TRAINING SESSION file
• PDF HANDOUT AND ACTION GUIDE PDF document
• AUDIO RECORDING sound file
• TRANSCRIPT PDF document
With out doubt, you get the best of the best here. Sinn is brilliant here and his veteran experience shines through here. I mean, like I said, I have seen Sinn in feild I don't know how many times, and he is bar none the nest teacher and PUA out there.
It can be said objectively that Sinn's The Seduction Raod Map is the foremost dating and pick up product out there. Sinn's vast experience and time in the field shows in his superior product The Seduction Road Map.
It's really astonishing. You have to decide to change your life and to have choice with women.
Again, here's the link so you can check it out!
http://www.astonishingdatingsecrets.com/go/Sinnsofattraction
PS Check out my website here: http://www.astonishingdatingsecrets.com/
--Kurgan
Sinn and I have been best buds for over 5 years as you guys know. I have witnessed first hand his incredible ability to pick up women. I and one other friend, RAHN are the few people that really know about Sinn.
When I first met Sinn, he was lead instructor for Mystery Method. Now, that was with Mystery, Savoy, The Don, Future, 10magnet, Style, DJ and a lot of other guys. It was really fun I have to say
We would go to clubs and bars, tearing up the place. Whether it was in Orange County, LA, Sf, Miami, or Vegas, it was always a blast.
When I first met Mystery, it was at a huge Pick Up convention in LV. We sure had some crazy nights in Vegas from clubs to strip clubs. We had a great time at the Circle Bar at the Hard Rock Cafe.
Anyway, Sinn has put out an incredible product called The Seduction Road Map. You can actually check it out here:
http://www.astonishingdatingsecrets.com/go/Sinnsofattraction
It's all of Sinn's secret stuff that we would always talk about. It's amazing.
But here is my analysis of Sinn's Seduction road Map.
How To Completely Eliminate Sexual Anxiety
The secret problem most men have is sexual anxiety which Sinn attacts right away. What both Sinn and I have noticed over the years is that there are a lot of guys that say they want to have sex with women, but that they make up all these excuses why they can't.
Sinn concluded that a lot of these guys were suffering from sexual anxiety: a fear of having sex with women. The most serious reason for you not having sex is sexual anxiety. I mean how frustrating is it to finally get a girl to your bed room and you get scared or have anxiety and ruin the oppotunity.
Once and for all Sinn deals with this private and delicate issue once and for all. What would it be worth to you if you can have the awesome confidence to know that you are a sexual man that can deliver!
Moreover, in The Seduction Road Map, Sinn just goes into a no nonsense approach to teach you to getting laid by looking at the different modules in The Seduction Road Map:
• How To Completely Eliminate Sexual Anxiety
• Ceating Sexual Attraction
• The Art of Setting Sexual Frames
• Unleashing Her Sexual Side
• Non-Verbal Seduction.
Each modules contain lessons in each of these types of media:
• VIDEO TRAINING SESSION file
• PDF HANDOUT AND ACTION GUIDE PDF document
• AUDIO RECORDING sound file
• TRANSCRIPT PDF document
With out doubt, you get the best of the best here. Sinn is brilliant here and his veteran experience shines through here. I mean, like I said, I have seen Sinn in feild I don't know how many times, and he is bar none the nest teacher and PUA out there.
It can be said objectively that Sinn's The Seduction Raod Map is the foremost dating and pick up product out there. Sinn's vast experience and time in the field shows in his superior product The Seduction Road Map.
It's really astonishing. You have to decide to change your life and to have choice with women.
Again, here's the link so you can check it out!
http://www.astonishingdatingsecrets.com/go/Sinnsofattraction
PS Check out my website here: http://www.astonishingdatingsecrets.com/
--Kurgan
Saturday, November 6, 2010
Guys Taking My Internet Coaching Program
Thanks to the guys taking my match.com coaching program. Three guys have signed up for my program.
I teach guys how to game SUCCESSFULLY online on match.com.
This is what the program entails:
--Kurgan
I teach guys how to game SUCCESSFULLY online on match.com.
This is what the program entails:
- I give you my super secret ebook. Shows you everything: just how my system works. I spill the beans on ALL of my secrets I've field tested and used over 3 years. Now this is totally underground. I am not selling this shit. I want it for myself. Haha! But you will get it. With it, you will learn my secrets.
- I review your pictures and pick the best ones that I KNOW will pullgirls.
- I write and personalize your profile to who you are (I will interview you and ask some important questions).
- I teach you how to read the woman's profile so that you know exactly what to say to her in your emails to her.
- You pick 35 women and put them in your "favorites." I will game them in "real-time" so that you CAN LEARN how I do it so you can do this when our coaching is over!
- I will give you unlimited email support and numerous phone consults!
- Email Templates-just fill in the blanks! Haha!
--Kurgan
Sunday, October 24, 2010
Sinns of Attraction Beyond Seduction Event In LA
Hey Guys,
It was great seeing some of the guys I coached in the Mystery Method and Sinns of Attraction Bootcamps, over the years. I also met a lot of guys that went to the seminar.
Carlos Zuma was there. I didn't get a chance to talk to him though because I was there to answer guys' questions about pick up and stuff like that.
It was awesome seeing my good friend Sinn and Fastlife. I've known Sinn for about 5 years now. I remember when we first met in a club in Orange Country called Sutra. It was such a hard venue.
Actually, Fastlife and I went there a lot.
We've must have done 1000 sets there. We used to go there Mondays and Wednesdays. I have to admit that I've done a ton of sets over the years.
Anyway, that's where I met Sinn, Matador, OC Waterboy, and a bunch of other guys. That was a long time ago.
Anyway, we've gone through a lot over the years.
But it was nice seeing him again. The last time I saw Sinn was . . .humm? Can't remember actually. I think it was at the Sinns of Attraction Super Conference like a year ago.
Weird how times goes by so fast.
Anyway, it was cool to answer a lot of the guys questions on pick up.
What I have found is that a lot of the guys that were there have issues that are beyond pick up and women.
This is a strange situation that I've found in the community, and that a lot of guys want to get together with 10s when they have no social value.
Now that's not to say that they couldn't build it up, but it's going to be a long endeavor, and they are going to have to do a lot of sets.
Too, they are unwilling to practice and lower their standards to get better and work their way up.
Pick up is about building up your character to love yourself, to make yourself more important that the woman. You just can't do that right away.
I know a lot of top puas and they have to work hard off a cold approach to get that lay from like a seven. And, I'm talking about pretty good looking white guys that have all the born with attributes in hand.
I think the most important things they need to do is to create a life-style that's based on their passion, and that their passion is number one.
--Kurgan
It was great seeing some of the guys I coached in the Mystery Method and Sinns of Attraction Bootcamps, over the years. I also met a lot of guys that went to the seminar.
Carlos Zuma was there. I didn't get a chance to talk to him though because I was there to answer guys' questions about pick up and stuff like that.
It was awesome seeing my good friend Sinn and Fastlife. I've known Sinn for about 5 years now. I remember when we first met in a club in Orange Country called Sutra. It was such a hard venue.
Actually, Fastlife and I went there a lot.
We've must have done 1000 sets there. We used to go there Mondays and Wednesdays. I have to admit that I've done a ton of sets over the years.
Anyway, that's where I met Sinn, Matador, OC Waterboy, and a bunch of other guys. That was a long time ago.
Anyway, we've gone through a lot over the years.
But it was nice seeing him again. The last time I saw Sinn was . . .humm? Can't remember actually. I think it was at the Sinns of Attraction Super Conference like a year ago.
Weird how times goes by so fast.
Anyway, it was cool to answer a lot of the guys questions on pick up.
What I have found is that a lot of the guys that were there have issues that are beyond pick up and women.
This is a strange situation that I've found in the community, and that a lot of guys want to get together with 10s when they have no social value.
Now that's not to say that they couldn't build it up, but it's going to be a long endeavor, and they are going to have to do a lot of sets.
Too, they are unwilling to practice and lower their standards to get better and work their way up.
Pick up is about building up your character to love yourself, to make yourself more important that the woman. You just can't do that right away.
I know a lot of top puas and they have to work hard off a cold approach to get that lay from like a seven. And, I'm talking about pretty good looking white guys that have all the born with attributes in hand.
I think the most important things they need to do is to create a life-style that's based on their passion, and that their passion is number one.
--Kurgan
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