Ok. Here’s the deal. You have to approach the girl, no matter what. I know that horrid feeling of dread you will get when you see that girl you want to marry walking down the street, at the grocery store, or at a bar or club.
Here’s the secret to all of this: if you approach a woman and she does not respond to your overtures, you will nevertheless feel great inside if you attempt to open a conversation. It’s the best high ever, even if she is not interested.
But if you don’t open a conversation with her, you will feel like A TOTAL LOSER.
It’s the anticipation that kills us guys. It’s thinking about starting a chat with a woman you have never met before that is so paralyzing.
Once you open your mouth, though, you will realize in that very second that it’s actually not that bad.
But the mind is a strange thing—it plays games with us. You imagine the worst situation possible: she has a 300-pound boyfriend who’s going to knock your head off, or everyone is watching you and that she is going to laugh at you and everyone is going to hear and laugh too.
Guess what? That’s never happened. 99.9% of the women out there have been very nice either way to me or my friends.
The greatest obstacle whether opening a conversation with a woman or guiding her to bed—your greatest obstacle to that goal is your mind.
Get outside your comfort zone and take action; otherwise, you will never meet the girl of your dreams.
--Kurgan
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