Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Pick Up Lines and How to Use Them to Make Flirting Sexual

I have always said that when you flirt, there should always be an element of sexuality embedded in the flirt.

Now, a lot of guys believe that pick up lines don't work. Well those guys at 100% wrong. Pick up lines do work and they will work as long as you know how to use them.

Now, I called these lines Naughty Banter. They are sexually-laced flirting lines and they are huge in getting the girl.

Naughty Banter lines like these are priceless:

You're such a dork.

You would.

You're such a girl.

All of those work amazingly towards any woman. You just use them as responses to a girl’s answer.

Example:

You: Have you ever watched Sex in The City?
Her: I love that show. I watch the DVDs all the time.
You: OMG! You're such a dork!

Now, this example is standard fare. It will spark attraction. And believe it or not, it is sexual in flavor. The fact that you are calling her a "dork" indicates that you and her have "chemistry," and that you are confident enough to call her that right at the moment of meeting her.

It implies that the two of you could have a sexual relationship in the future. (Like haven’t you joked with a woman you were having sex with just like this.)

Now, even in this example, there is a move towards well-established rapport, which implies comfortability—because it assumes rapport; and ONLY a man who is confident in himself and his own sexuality, would he dare such bold humor.

So, there is intent and leading which are alpha male traits.

Hence, there is some sexual sparks in calling a woman you just met a "dork." (By the way, if you started to do this with a woman you've been friends with and want to put it on a sexual level, it will do the job just as well!)

But, why not put it on super sexual turbo charge. Study this expanded example and its structure:

Let's revisit the above example:

You: Have you ever watched Sex in The City?
Her: I love that show. I watch the DVDs all the time.
You: OMG! You're such a dork!
You: You're trouble. I need to keep my eyes on you.

See, just that one added naughty banter line puts it way on a sexual level.

You could even add a killer ingredient by adding a simple "cold read”:

You: Have you ever watched Sex in the City?
Her: I love that show. I watch the DVDs all the time.
You: OMG! You're such a dork!
You: You're trouble. I need to keep my eyes on you.
You: I can tell you were a handful with your last boyfriend!

See what a few well placed lines can move the interaction with a woman onto a sexual level just from a couple of lines. Also, the cold read moves the conversation even further towards a sexual level without you coming off as a creep.

I’ve always hated it when I was totally clueless to attracting women and didn't know how to make an otherwise (sexually) neuter interaction with a woman towards a sexual trajectory. Often times, it would end with a handshake and a "It was nice meeting you Mrs. Cuttingham."

I HATED THAT!

Boy, my life would have been so much different if I would have known what I know today!

--Kurgan

PS More on cold reads later!

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