OK, here’s the deal. Brand this into your head: how you present yourself to the world paints a picture of who you are and how you live—especially to women. If you don’t make yourself presentable, you are communicating on an unconscious level to women that you are a loser among men and your life is not together. Don’t do that.
Now, I’m not saying that you necessarily have to have your life 100% together (although that should be your goal). You can, as my friend who is amazing with women says, “fake it until you make it.”
But, women are masters at reading guys that don’t have social intelligence, and fashion is something women focus on and obsess with: they will read you before you open your mouth and have made all kinds of assumptions about you. So, be the best you can be.
Don’t have the “old-man” look. A sport-shirt from K-Mart or CostCo. with Dockers will not get you the girl of your dreams, unless you have an awesome personality. While you work on your innerpsychology, why not stack your style in your favor? I’m just being honest.
You have to show them that you “get it.” That you will offer them more than what they already have in their lives that is more exciting than them.
If you don’t, they will make you pay, both emotionally, and socially. They will think, “Why did I just waste my time with this loser.”
Now, I’m not saying that you are a loser, but you have to really look at what you offer a high quality woman.
Just go into your wardrobe and take an inventory of what you have. Then, go to a Barnes and Nobles and go to the Mag. Section and look at the latest GQ, Maxim, and Playboy magazine. Think about how you are creating a style from your fashion and see if it’s up to speed.
I’ll bet you $100 that it’s not. That’s ok we are going to learn this together.
–Kurgan
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