The Point To The Archer Story!

So, you understand? Did you figure it out? If not I will tell you.

The Young man was already a great bowman when he first asked the Zen Master. The Zen master didn’t make him great, he already had it within him from the very beginning. He also wanted it so bad, that he focused on it until he became the best. He never gave up.

Similarly, you are already a cool guy that can get any girl and find love and happiness, regardless of your looks, wealth, or full head of hair. You just haven’t realized it yet.

Like the story of the Archer you just read, the Zen Master just showed Musashi what was already in him before he even ever wanted to become a great archer: to be a champion!
Similarly, I am doing the same: you are already powerful with women; you can find the happiness you seek, as it is already there in you! The key here to realize is that you only need the courage to make a decision to activate it:–there is nothing wrong with you and that you deserve to have a beautiful, loving women in your life.

It’s just that nobody maybe told you this. It’s a weird thing actually: we guys need to be validated from outside sources for many different reasons. It’s based on a need that fuels our confidence as men. The problem is that women aren’t attracted to men who need external validation. You have to love yourself or it’s over before you speak to an attractive women.
Our flaws are 1000 times more magnified by us becasue we see them a lot more becasue we are us. The irony is that most people don’t see them. The killer deal here is that you can make your flaws, whether physical or mental into an atttractive thing . . . super easy! I will show you this later in this blog! So much to cover!!!!

Anyways: onwwards:

I am going to make a brief confession here: I have worked for the largest dating company in the world, and I have actually helped a lot of guys over a 3 year period. And, the one thing that I have noticed in my own journey and observation of guys wanting to get good with all this is this:
In order to date ANY beautiful women and to keep her in a relationship with you to marriage, you have to, what I call, “meet yourself” for the first time in your life.

Further:

The quality of women that you will attract is directly proportionate to the self-love and understanding of who you are and your place in the world!

So, my job in this blog is just for you to see yourself as a cool guy that I ALREADY can SEE IN YOU. (Even if I don’t know you . . .yet.)

And, all the stuff I’m having you do for you in this blog is just for you to realize that you are already cool; when you see that:

THE WOMEN WILL TOO, AND THAT’S GOING TO MAKE YOU VERY VERY ATTRACTIVE TO THEM.

That’s why girls always say to just be “yourself.” Well, that’s half right. We as guys know that “being yourself” doesn’t really work. However, what women really mean is for you to be a confident, fun, playful, leading man; be the best you. Don’t hide “you.”

That’s what “wimps” or beta males can’t see when they become supplicants to women and they kiss women’s asses. They are so egocentric in their self-pity, they think that reflecting to girls their insecure selves is authentic: but, it’s their insecure selves that girls hate. (More on masculane strength later, which is huge.)

That’s why girls are so mean to weak guys. They hate to see that weakness in the wimp; it makes them sick. So, they become “bitches” to that type of guy. Moreover, if you’re over 40 and are going for 25 year olds, she will tear you apart if you ever show weakness. Women hate weakness in men.

Remember, no matter how many girls you are attracted to and engage, and it doen’t go your way, think to yourself that you are not wasting your time because you will get better with experience. These interactions should just be looked at as practice. That’s it. Never quit.
In other words, don’t get attached to the results you get when you are out in the social environment.

Don’t do that. You will quit like a lot of guys do, because they are outcome dependant. DO NOT DO THAT. Rather, focus on attaining the skill to create attraction and intrugue in women and by working on your confidence and personality.

–Kurgan