Look, you need to get your hygiene under control. Women are masters at reading the appearance of your life by how you take care of your body and yourself.
Hygiene is a big, big deal. Do not fail in this or you will regret it. Take care of yourself for god’s sake. Take pride in yourself—love yourself. Believe in yourself. A girl will notice it if you don’t—just by what you are wearing, what your hygiene is like, and how you are put together.
Go up 1 whole point on the looks scale just by taking care of the following:
1. Clip your nails. No dirty nails, period. Do you think a “10” is going to let you touch her down there with dirty nails . . . try again.
2. Take showers before you go out and interact with women or when you go out on a “date” with them. Duh. Get a good cologne, as well. I call this the pre-approach.
3. Get a cool haircut. Get GQ Magazine, Esquire, or Maxim. Take the picture of the hairstyle you like to a hairstylist. Or just ask the hair stylist for advise. If you’re getting bald or are bald, shave your head.
· Moreover, if you’re bald, be like John-Luc Piccard from Star Trek: The Next Generation. He was a heartthrob because he focused on his confidence. Look, I’ll tell you a secret to baldness:–Never talk about it in an insecure way. If you ask a girl, “Can you see my bald spot?” You have just made that bald spot the size of the Black Sea because you just showed the number one weakness girls hate: insecurity.
· Don’t ever make any apologies for your baldness or anything about yourself EVER! Love yourself. If a girl says something about your hair, tell them this: “So, why do you like guys with bald hair?” Or “OMG! You’re attracted to me!” And just continue on with what you where talking about. P.S. No comb-overs. Gross. Shave it.
4. Wash your hair: no greasy hair.
5. No nose hairs sticking out. Mega gross. Clip them. You can get a cool grooming kit from Walgreens or Rite Aid for $20 bucks. No unibrow either. Get your eyebrows waxed by a professional.
6. Clean matching socks and clean and polished shoes (more on shoes: it’s that important) Black shoes, black socks.
7. Get a good deodorant. Wear it always. No bad odors, period. If you do, it will kill your game.
8. Keep your teeth clean: floss and brush your teeth. I know this one guy I work with. He’s good looking, but he always has gross dirty teeth and all the girls tell me how gross he is because of his dirty teeth. Don’t do that. Also, keep breath mints in your pocket at all times.
9. You don’t know when you are going to run into your next girlfriend. There are breath strips I buy at the grocery store or “eclipse” gum. I teach for the largest pick up company in the world and the students would go into the “field” and approach girls with super bad breath. Then, they would wonder why girls do the “back-turn” maneuver on them. Don’t do that. Keep gum in your pocket, always.
10. Have your teeth whitened. Get strips or get them done at the dentist. I got mine done at my dentist for $200. That’s not going to kill you. If you don’t have the money, get strips to whiten your teeth.
· If you look at evolution, humans 100s of thousands of years ago were running around in bands of like 50 to 100 people. During that time, when the elderly members of that “troop” were old and sick, a family member had to chew the food for the sick or elderly and then had to transfer the food from month to month. That’s why humans instinctively put so much emphasis on kissing as a show of affection. The point to this is that people notice your teeth. Do the best you can. My teeth are crooked. So, food and stuff get caught in them after I eat. So, I always have to brush and stuff. You need to do the same.
11. Go to the gym at least 4 to 5 times a week. (Check with a doctor first if you haven’t worked out in a while.) This is huge. If you are out of shape, get into shape. I run 3 miles 5 to 6 times a week. I go to the gym 3 to 4 times a week. Guess what? I look younger than guys 10 years younger than me.
12. Look, think about this: if you can’t take care of yourself, do you think a hot 21-year old wants to take care of you for you? No way. She is at the height of her sexual power. Why would she fall for a guy that is overweight and looks like a reject from the 1970s.
13. Don’t be de-selected by women and a loser among men. Keep you body in good shape. Now, you don’t have to look like you’re a 20 year old with ripped abs, but get in decent shape. I know it’s hard, but it’s only as hard as you think it is. If you try, and give up, you have already made the decision to fail. You can do it. I know you can. Get in to good shape.
Try these NOW and you will improve you chances with women 100%. Now here’s the default situation: do these things 100% of the time—always, period!
–Kurgan
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