Dominant Communication

Dominance comes in many different forms. Communication is one of them. It’s fascinating actually; and the academic world is oblivious to it right now because a lot of the academics are trying to mask their own identity issues due to their own failings via their mating strategies.
When I mean mating strategies, I mean man woman relationships: romantic in nature that eventually leads to—duh—babies.

I know, because I spent years in the academic milieu. But, I am digressing.

Anyway, because this form of dominant communication is so subtle, it forms, other than building your beliefs, the key element in creating attraction in women. Now, what fuels this form of dominance are your beliefs. Take a very important note of that. There is an interpenetration between the two in an almost organic way.

Not that many people in the world know about this: it’s like an incredible secret that the world is oblivious to. It is no less than the war of “meaning.” Don’t worry I will explain in the following posts.

The interesting thing is that 99% of women intuitively know what it is. They feel it but they can’t logic it like I am going to do for you.

It’s a form of control that is invisible and if you don’t know that it exist, than you are done. It will be very difficult to attract or date or hold a relationship, period in this regard.

The interesting thing is that there are a good majority of people who intuitively know about this, but again, they haven’t analyzed it logically so as to tactically subvert it to one’s own advantage. How can you fight something you don’t know?

It’s like the human mind has two ways of understanding: the conscious and the unconscious. The unconscious is when a woman or anyone for that matter says, behaves, or does something that is not explicitly said, but the message was “felt.” It’s like a form of communication that is nonverbal in nature. In other words, it’s like talking through emotions.

Hasn’t a woman you were trying to make a sexual overture to acted in a way that “blew you off” but she didn’t say a word? Well that’s what I am talking about.

The conscious way is to understand this invisible way of dominant communication and to use your logical mind to commander the meaning of the communication, flip it, and twist the meaning to you advantage.

That’s what you will have to do. It is a form of dominance that has to do with the meaning of what you are communicating to other people. The awareness of this is the first step, and that will be talked about in the next entry.

–Kurgan