Tuesday, March 16, 2010

My Own Passion That Draws Women Into My Life In Less Than 10 Minutes!

Here’s an example of what I did to make my life exciting.

Now, I’m a teacher. Teachers were not known for pushing the “excitement” envelope if you know what I mean.

Like when I started to get really good with women, I would only talk about how passionate about teaching I was, not by the technical parts of teaching.

Like I told them a story about a teacher that really influenced me in high school that guided me towards college. Then, I would transfer that “feeling” towards inspiring my students to do the same. So, rather than talking about adolescent behavior modification in the student’s IEP, I am talking about what drives me to be the best teacher i can be. Do, you see the difference.

So, this applies if you are a lawyer or doctor or car mechanic. Don’t talk so much about the teachnical “shop talk” when you first meet a women or are on a “date.” Rather, talk about what you do that makes you “feel” the passionate side of what you do that makes up your life. That’s the ticket!

Get it! Women can relate to your passion because women are more in touch with their emotions rather than their logical minds.

So, as a teacher of history (with summers off), I was passionate about European history and culture. But, it took me over 2 years before I finally went to Paris. I mulled over tickets on the internet for years before I finally worked up the nerve to go.

After that, over the years, I went to Berlin, Amsterdam, Prague, Krakow, Budapest, Barcelona, and London just to name a few.

So, after the first trip to Paris, it just all flowed; but, it took me over 2 years before I had the courage to go on my own.

The point here is that my passion for traveling—I had to make it “happen.” So, you can see that you have to take massive action in order for you to live your life through you passion whatever that may be.

You can see that my profession is my passion and that my passion is my profession. Teaching about European history and traveling to Europe are wonderfully in synch.
I have now made it into my life-style of traveling. Do you see how I did it.
Now, when I started to date the women that I would eventually married, she found out that I traveled the world in the summers and I never really said anything about it, but she told me latter that that was a big element about who I was that she was attracted to.

Now, for me, creating that lifestyle took effort. A lot of effort and time, but I pursued a life that I wanted. Women are attracted to that. So, you need to do it. Not just for attracting women, but for yourself!

–Kurgan

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